What Seniors Need Most

Donna Nichols • August 2, 2024
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The number one thing we find our seniors need most is advocates!! Not traditional advocates, they need advocates with HEART!!!! Advocates who do the job because they love it and love seniors. Love and heart should be the driving force of a senior advocate. If money drives them, then they won’t fight for the seniors like they should. Someone must defend the rights of those who cannot defend themselves.


Some people have lost their vision, therefore lost heart through the years and have become all about money. For five (5) days a week, eight (8) hours a day, they will do what the system allows them to do for our seniors. What happens when something arises on the weekend? Does that senior have your cell phone number? No, they have your office number, but you’re not there.


An advocate needs to be readily available because anything can happen at any given moment. And this is usually exactly when something happens, when you’re not available. But most people don’t get paid to work weekends. What if it was your mother or father? Wouldn’t you want someone fighting for them no matter what time or day it was? I would!!!


The advocates I am referring to are the social workers and case managers, who have lost heart in their positions. It’s not their fault, they have agendas because our health-care system has failed them. The system won’t let them do what is really needed for the senior. The policies they have are unfortunately the wrong ones. The system dictates how they must do their job, and sometimes the outcome is not the right one. Sure, they don’t like it, but there’s not much they can do about it short of quitting their job.


However, if you are an independent advocate, you don’t answer to the “system.” So, if you are at the end of your rope and don’t know where to turn or what to do, wouldn’t you like to know there are advocates that will help you with no hidden agenda? An advocate that has only you and your loved one(s) best interest at heart? Wouldn’t it be great to have someone say, “I got you!”? We can take the stress out of finding the perfect solution for your unique situation.

Assisted Living Made Simple are advocates with heart; we will fight for you or your loved one. We will assist you in whatever the case may be, whether you need assisted living, home health care, or just some guidance for your situation, we are here to help you.


Call us today for your free consultation 386-847-2322.

 


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By Donna Nichols • July 17, 2025
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By Donna Nichols • July 2, 2025
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